9 Tips to Keep a Conversation Going

As we all know by now, talking to a beautiful woman who you’ve never met before is one of the harder things you’ll have to do. In fact, so much of your energy is put into trying to psyche yourself up to talk to her, that a lot of the time you get there with nothing to say, leaving nothing but awkward silence between you after your initial, “Hi.” Never fear! By following the following tips you’ll be able to avoid those awful moments of silence.

Tip 1: Improvise with the conversation
One way to quickly end a conversation is by answering any questions she may ask with a simple “yes” or “no”. Instead, you should answer with a longer answer that could lead to more conversation. For example, if she asks what you like, instead of saying something simple like “I like baseball” make it a longer answer like “I like baseball because it reminds me of when my dad used to take me to Yankees games as a kid”. Suddenly, you’ve not only offered a little bit more about yourself (never a bad thing, especially when it shows to the woman you have feelings) but also have opened the conversation up to any amount of avenues.

Tip 2: Show your passion
Nothing gets a girl excited like when a guy is excited about something. So many guys think that pouting and showing their emo face will draw women in by their inherent mystery. But once the girls solve that mystery – and usually there’s honestly no much to solve – they move on. Instead, if a topic comes up you’re genuinely interested in, don’t be afraid to dork out a little and speak passionately about it.

Tip 3: Don’t ask too many questions, instead use statements
It’s common knowledge that women like to speak about themselves a lot, so guys reciprocate this behavior by asking a lot of questions. However, a lot of the rapid-fire questioning can be seen as intimidating and, in a lot of cases, very boring. Instead, once the woman answers a question follow it up with a statement. For example, if a you ask a girl about her pets and she answers that she has two, instead of following up by wondering what their names are, make a statement like “You know what they say, a cat lover is known to be more independent than dog lovers.” This will open not only keep the conversation on her, but also open the conversation to other things.

Tip 4: Forget the facts, use emotions
A common known fact is that women are much more in touch with their emotions than men are, and so it makes sense that this is one of the things that women love to get men to talk about. So when talking about a certain subject like, say, snowboarding, instead of going over the statistics of snowboarding (the various places she’s skied, how good the snow is, how good she is at snowboarding) go ahead and ask her how she feels when she’s snowboarding. This will help open the conversation and show your sensitive side.

Tip 5: Be a careful storyteller
There is a positive and negative to telling a story to someone you’ve just met. On the plus side, since you just met them they don’t know any of your stories and you’re free to tell anything you like (and even embellish them a little, if you’d like). Unfortunately, since they don’t know you, they’re also spending time listening to the story while trying to figure out the qualities of the storyteller. For example, if you mention that you had to “wake up early”, an old friend of yours will brush aside that fact. But someone knew will start to ask themselves, “Why was he waking up early? Does he have an important job in the morning?” As such, make sure to be careful about what details you put into a story. The woman will be trying to read between every line you put out there.

Tip 6: Use the cold reads
Cold reads are when you’re able to know something about someone just by looking at them; think of it like when a poker player “reads” another player at the table. Making an assumption about a girl (ex: “you look like an intelligent girl”) and telling her about it is something you should try. Definitely don’t make it too negative of a read, but by showing the woman you can read and talk about her emotional state, you once again show the softer side of you. Also, it doesn’t hurt that the conversation is once again about her.

Tip 7: Have fun with her
One of the biggest things you can do is tease her a little during the conversation. Use innocent recess-like humor such as high-fiving her and telling her stupid corny jokes. This will show that you don’t have to be serious every waking hour of the day. Instead, she’ll remember you as a fun guy that she’d like to talk to again.

Tip 8: Turn “safe” to “unsafe”
For example, in a conversation about how you’re a dog owner and she’s a cat owner, feel free to say something like “I’ve heard that cat owners and dog owners can’t have a long-lasting relationship with each other, but that doesn’t mean they can’t have awesome sex.” You’ve taken a safe topic (pet-owning) and made it unsafe (about sex). You can really do this with anything. She’ll like this in the same way that a lot of girls are always attracted to the “bad guy”.

Tip 9: Don’t forget your non-verbals
More important than anything you can say are the non-verbal pieces of communication you use in the conversation. Showing that you’re comfortable and confident are a hundred times more important than the actual content of your conversation. At the end of the day, she’s less likely to remember the specifics of what you two were talking about and, instead, more likely to remember that she was talking to a confident man. And one that she wants to talk to again.

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5 Steps to Flirting With Women

If you want to meet, attract, and date more women then you need to learn how to flirt with women.  The best way to do this is learn a few good flirting techniques and then to go out and practice them.  In this article I will give you a five step process for creating that fun, flirtatious vibe that women are most attracted to.

1.  Get playful
The first characteristic that you want to display to a woman is that you’re playful.  This is because women hate getting stuck talking to nervous, cautious, and boring guys.    As soon as you demonstrate to a woman that you are fun guy… she will put her guard down and begin opening up to you more.

2.  Tease her
A great way to flirt with a woman is to tease her.  As you’re talking to her look for an opportunity to make fun of something she is doing.  Don’t be mean or cruel, you’re just looking to ‘bust her balls’ about something silly she has done or said.

3.  Use physical teases
After you’ve used verbal teasing to let her know you’re flirting with her, you can then begin to physically tease her.  Physical teases include making an exaggerated expression as she is telling a story, sticking your tongue out at her, or pulling your hand away when she goes to give you high five.
If these sound childish.. they are meant to.  The best examples of flirting are the sort of things you used to do back on the playground in the fourth grade.

4.  Keep her guessing
Women love the suspense of not knowing exactly how you feel about them.  Once you come right out and tell a girl you like her, the sexual tension that was building between the two of  you begins to die down.  This is why it is always better to never quite let her know where she stands with you.  This idea of push/pull is a powerful technique when flirting with a woman.

5.  Escalate the flirtation
Once you’ve established yourself as a fun, flirty type of guy, you must begin taking the conversation to a more sexual level.  This is because you don’t want to come across as the “funny friend” or “the flirt”… instead, you want her to begin seeing you as a guy she would like to get intimate with.  The best way to do this is become more physical.  This means you do things like hold her hand, hold eye contact longer, and get closer to her.
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Conversation Topics That Keep Her Attention, Charm Her, and Attract Her

You can spend all the time you want on your looks, book reservations at the perfect restaurant or find the best bar in the area, and make all of the money you want, but when it comes to charming a woman, it all comes down to the conversation. Which is why it’s so frustrating when certain conversations seem to go nowhere, only ending up with large moments of awkward silence before the two of you go your separate ways. The problem is that you are focusing on the wrong topics of conversation. Luckily, it’s an easy fix.

By utilizing the following conversation topics, you’ll be able to attract women by turning good conversations into great conversations.

1. When you were kids…
No matter how old you are, your childhood will always hold a special place in your heart. By opening yourself up and letting the woman know what kind of circumstances you come from, you’ll not only show her your emotional side, but also give her a chance to relate. By opening up the floor for conversation topics about childhood, she will have her own experiences she will want to talk about, allowing her to shoulder a lot of the conversation itself.

2. What you’re passionate about…
This is the easiest topic to use for two reasons. First, it allows the woman to (once again) see your emotional side, something that will only help win her over. Second, it gives you a chance to talk about something you actually enjoy talking about! This will make the conversation float easily, taking the weight off of it. In the same way, after talking about your own passions, steer the conversation in the direction of hers, asking her a lot of questions about what she enjoys doing. Later on when she thinks about the conversation she had with you, she’ll remember it being a lot of fun because she was talking about what she loves.

3. The people surrounding you…
Since this is a woman you’ve spent very little time with, you don’t have a lot of common experiences from which to draw from … except the current experience you’re having. Form a bond with her by discussing your surroundings, whether it be the type of bar you’re currently in, the food in the restaurant, or the people surrounding you. One thing I love doing whenever I’m talking with a woman is making up back stories for the various strangers surrounding us. This puts us in a collaborative mood and allows me to flex my creative side.

4. Her ambitions…
While talking about your current job and your past is all well and good, women put a lot of stock into where the man is going. But even more important than that is getting her to speak about her own future ambitions. This will, once again, steer the conversation in her direction, letting her talk about herself. Also, it will boost the emotional state of the conversation, since no one can talk about their own ambitions without getting a little bit excited about them.

5. Her travels
Travel is always a fun topic, but this is a part where it’s best to step back and let her talk. While the places you’ve traveled could be great, and you could have so many stories from your various adventures, too many of those and it looks like you’re trying too hard to impress her. Instead, start the topic off about travel and then start inquiring about her own stories. This will showcase her various passions, desires, world views, etc. which you can call back later on in the conversation.

6. Your life lessons
While this isn’t necessarily a “topic”, it’s important to shade all of your conversations by asking yourself this question: What lesson has this taught you? By having this depth in every topic of conversation, you are not only showcasing the depth of your own thought (again, something women enjoy finding in men), but also once again spreading the branches of the conversation tree as far as they can go. Instead of just talking about this fight you got into in 5^th grade (one topic) you can talk about your various feelings that were going through your mind at the time and the lessons you’ve learned from the fight (many topics). From there, the conversation will expand on its own.

7. Your thoughts on pop culture / current events
If worse comes to worse, use any thoughts you have on pop culture or current events to keep the conversation from falling into any awkward silences. However, don’t use this conversation topic too often or else you will come off as boring and with no depth.
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Be the Girl Every Man Wants to Date- Dating Guide for Women

Dating is a process of meeting and getting to know people who could be your lifetime partner. Every single woman who dreams of finding the right guy of course would like to know how to be the girl every man wants to date.  Success in the dating arena will give you the chance to create the kind of relationship you’ve been dreaming of. The following tips can be very helpful if you want to be the girl every man wants to date.

Be presentable. You need to work on your looks to be the girl every man wants to date. Men are visual creatures and a woman’s physical appearance is usually the first thing that caught the attention of men. While attraction is not solely based on physical appearance, the way you dress and your overall appearance is your first impression on a guy so make a good first impression and look your best.  You probably saw women who are well-dressed and well-groomed and you know how the opposite sex responds to them. Of course you want to be that woman who captures the attention of men even on the first meeting. So to capture his attention you have to put importance on your looks. It is not about being superficial. As a woman, you are supposed to look good not only for the opposite sex but also for yourself. You will feel good if you look good. It is not expensive to look good or to groom properly. You do not have to look like a movie star but you have to be at least pleasant and presentable in the eyes of other people. Learn to groom yourself to be the girl every man wants to date.  Put attention to your hygiene and wear the right clothes and hair. If you cannot do it by yourself, ask advice from your girl friends.

Learn to have a sense of humor and wear a smile.  Women are easily attracted to men with sense of humor and it is the same thing with men. A woman who knows how to smile and make a man laugh is a very attractive woman. Of course it is a different thing to joke at the expense of other people; you can make him laugh without hurting others. A sincere smile and a good sense of humor can make a woman really irresistible. Most men usually want to hang around people or women who can make them laugh and who can also take jokes without getting personal about it. A good sense of humor is important if you want to be the girl every man wants to date.

Be a smart girl. You do not have to be a mathematician or a PhD to be smart but being a wide reader will get you a long way in a conversation with a guy.  Men are usually intellectual and they look for someone who can be on that same level whom they can have a good conversation with.  Men like to be with someone who has the wits and the intellect to stimulate their thoughts.  To be a girl every man wants to date, be a woman who can carry out an interesting conversation with a guy. This can happen only if you will create a habit of reading and updating yourself with new information. It wouldn’t hurt if you will start to know a little about sports that most men want to talk about.  Be a smart woman to be the girl every man wants to date.

Develop an interest on something or a hobby.  To be an interesting person there has to be something interesting about you. Have you noticed how amazing and attractive those people who excel on things like sports, arts and other hobbies? If there is something you are interested in like photography, cooking, playing a guitar, badminton or sketching, do something about it. Isn’t it great to have something you are good at and you can talk about it to anyone including your date? You will also gain new friends related to your hobby. You will be surprised on how having a hobby can do to your personality. Men are drawn to women who are interesting so to be the girl every man wants to date, be an interesting woman.

You do not have to change who you are but you have to improve those qualities you already have to become an irresistibly attractive woman. We all have the potential to be attractive; we just need to check ourselves on what we need to improve to become a better version of ourselves. Be the girl every man wants to date and get that kind of relationship you’ve always wanted, visit Make Him Desire You

Be More Successful with Men- 3 Things Women Should Know

Are you one of those women who spend Friday nights at home on your couch with your remote control switching one channel to another and wondering why you are home while girls your age are out there dating their prince charming? Do you want to be more successful with men and get the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted with the right man? The following tips can be very helpful if you want success with men.

Have that positive attitude.  To be more successful with men, you have to posses that positive attitude. Have you been around someone who has that positive aura that even if he or she is not the most physically attractive person in the room, the positive aura makes that person so irresistible? A person like that is like a fresh breath of air. By being positive, funny and cool, you are attracting people (including men) and giving them an experience that they want to have over and over again. If you are a positive person, you can bring out the best in people even in bad situations and that is very admirable.  You usually do not just react but you choose to be proactive. Instead of complaining, you often focus on the solution and create a positive energy to make a bad situation better.  It is easier for a woman with positive attitude to be more successful with men than those who are so negative.

Have that confidence. Confidence and success goes hand and hand so if you want to be more successful with men, you must have that confidence.  People who lack confidence usually does not grab the opportunities presented to them and let those opportunities passed them by.  In a room filled with people, a person with low self-esteem usually stays in one corner of the room letting the opportunity to meet someone great just passed her by or she just stays with her usual group and does not explore the possibilities of meeting other people outside her group.  If you really want to be more successful with men, have the confidence to grab the opportunity to meet new people. If you are a naturally shy person, confidence is not something that will happen overnight but by taking baby steps and constant practice you will learn how to be more confident.  Good grooming, good posture, the way you talk or converse and the way you carry yourself are all part of building your confidence and all of these can be learned. Overtime, you can overcome your shyness and be more confident and more secure with yourself. When this happens, you are giving yourself the chance to be more successful with men.

Do not compare yourself to other women. One thing that could prevent you from having success with men is the habit of comparing yourself to other women. If you want to be more successful with men, stop saying she’s fairer, flawless, more beautiful, sexier, smarter, that is why men are drooling over her.” If you want to be more successful with men, this kind of attitude or thinking is not helpful because it will just make you feel inferior. There will always be people more beautiful, sexier and gorgeous than you but the most important thing is accepting yourself who you really are and you are confident that you have unique qualities that make you stand out from the rest. It is easier to be more successful in men when you become more at ease with who you really are and accepted that you are a unique person with unique qualities.

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How to Become Irresistibly Attractive to Men

Every woman dreams of meeting the man who will love them for the rest of their lives. But for some women, this is just a fairy tale that could only happen to those women who have the looks and the body that make men drools over them. Is it true that average looking women don’t have a chance of meeting and attracting the man of their dreams? Or is it possible for all women to become irresistibly attractive to men?

The thing is, attracting men is a skill that can be learned and every woman has the chance to enjoy a healthy and satisfying relationship. Of course you have to do something to get the kind of relationship you want. There are ways to become irresistibly attractive to men and here are some tips:

Know what you want. Of course to be irresistibly attractive to men, you should know what you want. It is so hard to drive your energy and focus on something if you do not know what you really want or what you are looking for. If you need to make a list of the characteristics of a person you want to attract, then do so.  What kind of relationship you want in your life? If you have a definite picture in your mind of the person and the relationship you want to attract, then it is easier to plan on how to attract the man of your dreams.

The way you think, affects how you attract people. The thing is, if you think you can attract people or if you think you can’t attract anyone, you are right. Many women think that they are too old, too fat or not exciting enough to attract the opposite sex. They are not aware that those negative thoughts and beliefs are making them unattractive. What you think is more likely to happen because you focus your energy on what you think or what you believe. If you believe in yourself that you can become irresistibly attractive to men, then things will be easier for you. Being positive or believing in yourself really matters when it comes to things you want from life. To attract people, including the opposite sex, you have to believe and be positive about it. No matter how you look and what size you are, if you believe in yourself and you are a positive person, you are definitely more attractive than those who are full of negativity. Being negative is definitely unattractive. Create an identity or personality that is more positive to be irresistibly attractive to men.

Knowing what you want and being positive are very important but of course you also have to exert extra efforts to improve yourself as a whole. We all have things that we want to improve or goals we want to achieve. This is the right time to act on them to become irresistibly attractive to men. Do you want to learn how to cook? Do you want to learn photography? Do you want to be healthier and physically active? Act on them now and achieve what you want because those things that you want to achieve are added factors for you to be more interesting and attractive. A person who makes time to learn something new is an interesting and attractive person.

Being attractive is not something that can happen overnight but every woman can become irresistibly attractive to men if they have the will and know the right techniques. Every woman wants a lasting relationship with the man of their dreams. These things cannot be left to merely luck or chance and you have to do something to get the relationship you want with the man of your dreams. Discover more techniques on how to become irresistibly attractive to men, visit Make Him Desire You

How to Know When a Guy is Interested in You

Are you confused if he likes you or not?  Men are usually not very transparent with their emotions and if you do not watch him closely and pay attention to his behavior whenever he is with you, it will be really hard to tell if he likes you or not. Would it be nice to know when a guy is interested in you? The following signs can be very helpful for you to know if he is really smitten by you.

You know when a guy is interested in you when he tries to make you laugh whenever you are sad. He is sensitive to your moods and feelings and when you are sad, he tries to make you laugh or feel good. Maybe your friends or people close to you are doing the same to cheer you up, but you will notice that with him there is a difference. He will do things that you really like just to put a smile on your face and to really make you feel good about yourself. It doesn’t matter if he needs to do things he does not usually do as long as he can make you smile again, he is willing to exert extra efforts just for you.

You know when a guy is interested in you when he is interested even on little things about you. You will find it surprising that he is interested even on little things about you. He will ask you about your family, siblings, what you were like when you were just a kid, the things that you like and dislike. You will notice that he is trying to know you more and more everyday and he wants to get close to you.

You know when a guy is interested in you when you can feel his presence all the time. He makes excuses or looking for reasons just to be with you. If he is a co-worker, he wants to eat lunch with you on a regular basis and be able to talk to you as well. If he is a schoolmate, he wants to be able to see you in school everyday or be able to walk you home. In other words, he wants to see you and spend time with you almost everyday. If you are not in the same circle, he makes an effort to see you or spend time with you. If he is not physically present, he will contact you or make his presence be felt. He will send text messages, email and call or do something for you to feel his presence. It is like you are part of his daily life.

You know when a guy is interested in you when he listens and always there for you. He is there to listen and help you if you need help. Others may be there for you when things are going smoothly and makes excuses when you are in trouble and needs help but you will notice that he is consistently supportive whenever you need someone.

You know when a guy is interested in you when he treats you like a lady. He maybe naturally nice and acts so friendly to everyone around him but with you, he is not just being nice but he treats you like a lady and gives you the respect you deserve. A man who is really smitten by you respects you and treats you like a lady.

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